Don't Miss Our Next Retreat!

Hey Friend,

If you didn’t get in on the May 14-16 Realife Retreat at Zephyr Point, Lake Tahoe, you missed a great time. It was only the third weekend that the conference center had been opened for hosting due to COVID restrictions. We were so encouraging to see groups gathering again, having meals and fellowship together on the shores of gorgeous Lake Tahoe.

We are currently in the process of planning the dates for our next Realife Retreat for couples and invividuals. We should have those dates to announce soon, but in the meantime we want to encourage you to get on our waitlist. Space is extremely limited because these are smaller groups of 15-20 individuals. 

JOIN THE WAITLIST

Hosting and facilitating rest and renewal retreats goes back to our years of supporting and resourcing global workers during the 20 years we lived in in Central Eurasia. We love this part of what God has called us to do. Smack dab in the busyness of life and ministry, Jesus invited his disciples get away with Him into some quiet space and rest. We follow His example by intentionally creating space to reflect, rest and renew in the presence of the One who knows how to care for our souls well. Consider God’s invitation: 

“God, my shepherd! I don’t need a thing. You have bedded me down in lush meadows, you find me quiet pools to drink from. True to your word, you let me catch my breath and send me in the right direction.”
Psalm 23:1-3 (The Message)

Our goal with these retreats is to strike a balance between rest, reflection and planning. We unpack what it means to have a modern day rule of life and rhythms to help us lean into all that our Lord has for us ... based on what really matters! 


Here’s what some of the folks who attended had to say….

"The Needs and Values assessment starting at the beginning sets the foundation for the motivation and implementation of the Real Life statement and Focus Areas."
- Jeanette 

"So much to take away: the Realife view was extremely helpful to create a roadmap for action. The conversations in the group setting were life-giving as well."
- Josh


"My biggest takeaways were:
- I need to use calendars.
- [My wife] and I are really ok.
- Scheduling life is NOT a prison cell."
- Rollin


"If you are seeking help in transitions and finding your path, I highly suggest connecting with Encompass Life Coaching. Amazing process for those seeking something fulfilling."
- Raquel

As a taste of one of our retreat themes of discernment I want to offer you a free download. Whether you are at a big crossroads or simply in the middle of some decision, my hope is that these Sorting and Sifting Questions will help you get clarity.

Rhythms of life and personal schedules can get disrupted and drift out of alignment, so we need opportunities to reset and realign. This process can benefit each individual as well as each relationship. 

Will you join us?

RESERVE YOUR SPOT NOW BY JOINING THE WAITLIST TODAY!

-Tim

Gaining Clarity to Live with Purpose and Intentionality

Hey Friend and Happy Spring!

This is one of my favorite times of the year. It's a time when things dormant and seemingly lifeless spring up. The plants and flowers were there all along, right beneath the surface. But now, in the fullness of time, their beauty is revealed.

Needs and Values are kind of like that. They're easy to ignore as we speed through life, giving little thought to what lies underneath - those core desires and motivations. Yet if ignored for too long, we lose sight of the WHY.

What’s really important, and why? What am I willing to invest in order to answer that question with confidence and clarity?

Doing the deeper work of discovering our core needs values is one of the first steps toward living with purpose and intentionality. Self-discovery and discernment take some hard work. But the investment is well worth it.

Getting clarity on core values and prioritizing our lives around those values is the work of springtime in my opinion. It's a reflective process done both alone with God and with others. It cultivates and prepares the soil of our hearts. It's just good soul care.

Sow righteousness for yourselves,
reap the fruit of unfailing love,
and break up your unplowed ground;
for it is time to seek the Lord,
until he comes
and showers his righteousness on you.
- Hosea 10:12

Once we do the deeper work of clarifying our needs and values, we have a much better chance of leaning into God's ultimate plan for our lives and into the opportunities He's giving us.


Are you ready to take the next step toward clarity? Download my free values clarification resource here

Want to gain more personal clarity? Take the full Needs and Values assessment here

Want to take an even deeper dive? Take the full assessment and book a coaching call with me to gain further clarity


Here's to greater clarity!

-Tim

Breaking Up Unplowed Ground: Clarifying Values

This is one of my favorite times of the year. It's a time when things dormant and seemingly lifeless spring up. The plants and flowers were there all along, right beneath the surface. But now, in the fullness of time, their beauty is revealed.

Needs and Values are kind of like that. They're easy to ignore as we speed through life, giving little thought to what lies underneath - those core desires and motivations. Yet if ignored for too long, we lose sight of the WHY.

What’s really important, and why? What am I willing to invest in order to answer that question with confidence and clarity?

Doing the deeper work of discovering our core needs values is one of the first steps toward living with purpose and intentionality. Self-discovery and discernment take some hard work. But the investment is well worth it.

Getting clarity on core values and prioritizing our lives around those values is the work of springtime in my opinion. This is a reflective process done both alone with God and with others. It cultivates and prepares the soil of our hearts. It's just good soul care.
 

Sow righteousness for yourselves,
reap the fruit of unfailing love,
and break up your unplowed ground;
for it is time to seek the Lord,
until he comes
and showers his righteousness on you.
- Hosea 10:12

 
Once we do the deeper work of clarifying our needs and values, we have a much better chance of leaning into God's ultimate plan for our lives and into the opportunities He's giving us.

 

Are you ready to take the next step toward clarity? Download my free values clarification resource here

Want to take a deeper dive? Take the full assessment and book a coaching call with me to gain further clarity

 

Here's to greater clarity!

- Tim

 

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Transitions are naturally times and seasons of turmoil. I’m convinced the tragedy in transition comes when we fail to pause long enough to process the change...not just the change happening outwardly, but more importantly the change taking place within us. Effectively managing the turmoil of transitions is no easy process, but with some patience and intentionality it can be done. Here’s some strategies for managing the turmoil of transition...

Risk, Uncertainty, and Perfectionism

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My most recent transition to full time coaching has held a fair amount of risk and uncertainty. Combine that with a strong desire to get it right the first time...well, you can see where I’m going.

If you have perfectionist tendencies coupled with being in a season of risk and uncertainty, here’s 2 tips to get you unstuck and moving forward...

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Going Deeper

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We pay a price for going deep into values-based, purposeful living. Self-discovery and discernment take some hard work. But the investment is well worth it. Getting clarity on core values and prioritizing our lives around those values is like having a large enough boat which holds steady in the storm and won’t capsize when the squalls come up.

Seamless Provision

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Transition seasons challenge our ability to hope for daily provision and future prosperity. Prolonged transitions can be especially difficult when faced with loss of income and other sources of stability. Here’s three things to know when it comes to experiencing seamless provision in times of transition.

What's Important Now?

What's Important Now?

Leading our personal and professional lives well means deciding what’s most important, and why. Getting to the why and committing to a subsequent course of action is often a process of discernment and a series of deep conversations, especially during pivotal transition seasons. The key to success is uncovering and acting upon what’s most important.

Why Coaching Works: Three Real-Life Situations

Why Coaching Works: Three Real-Life Situations

As seasons change and situations shift, having a coach should be an ongoing, relevant part of your support structure. This is especially true in this journey called life, where adapting to change is a key component of our ability to thrive. Learn more about how great coaching is both intentional and flexible at the same time…

Creative Conversations

Creative Conversations

Just as the warmth of Spring triggers the onset of new growth, internal and external change can be the impetus for creative seasons in our lives. How we leverage these seasons of change can make all the difference. Creative conversations play a big part in the process.

Why Millennials and Gen Z's are Hiring Life Coaches

Why Millennials and Gen Z's are Hiring Life Coaches

The coaching movement continues to grow, especially among young adults looking for purpose and direction in life. More and more Millennials and Gen Z’s are hiring life coaches. Here are some insights into why this surge of interest is happening and what our response needs to be.

Resilience, Trauma and Transition

Resilience, Trauma and Transition

Resilience helps us thrive and grow through and beyond traumatic events. When we are resilient, we know how to approach and handle a crisis situation. But we also know how to adapt and grow on the other side of crisis. Resilience is also a key ingredient to successful transitions.

Building Resilience

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How are you at bouncing back from difficulty and adapting to change? We risk defeat when we fail to recognize the need to develop resilience skills and put them to use. Ultimate success comes to those who learn and use resilience skills toward a favorable outcome. Read more…

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Whether we initiate a transition ourselves or it happens to us, why leave the process up to chance? How can we navigate the waters of transition more purposefully? As a fellow transitioner, I've struggled to find reasons why some of my own transitions haven't been as successful as they could have been. Here's 5 Reasons why people fail to grow through transition….