Designing Experiments: Learning Your Way Forward

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Design Your Change Series | Part 3

If you've ever walked through a major transition, you know how easy it is to believe every decision must be permanent. Should I accept the new job? Should we move? Should I retire? Should I start the business? Should I return to school? Should I stay...or should I go?

The weight of those questions can become overwhelming because we often assume we're making one irreversible decision that will determine the rest of our lives. But what if there's another way to think about transition? What if, instead of trying to design the perfect plan, we learned to design thoughtful experiments?

When I use the word "experiment," I don't mean something careless or risky. I mean a small, intentional step that helps us pay attention to how God may be leading. Experiments aren't about avoiding commitment. They're about creating opportunities to learn.

Throughout Scripture, we often see God revealing His direction gradually rather than all at once. He invites people to take faithful steps, and those steps become part of how His purposes unfold. I believe that often happens in our own lives as well.

Instead of waiting until every question is answered, we begin exploring. We pay attention. We notice what gives life. We notice what drains us. We notice where our gifts, values, relationships, and opportunities begin to align.

That doesn't happen by thinking alone. It happens by engaging.

An experiment might look like:

• Volunteering with an organization before pursuing a new career.

• Taking on a consulting project before launching a business.

• Shadowing someone whose work interests you.

• Taking a class in an area you've always wondered about.

• Having coffee with someone living the kind of life you're considering.

• Serving in a ministry before assuming it's your long-term calling.

None of those require you to have your future completely figured out. They're simply ways of learning.

One of the questions I often ask coaching clients is this: "What could you try that would teach you something?"

Notice the difference. I'm not asking, "What lifelong commitment should you make?" I'm asking, "What can you learn?"

Learning has a way of reducing fear. It replaces assumptions with experience. It replaces imagination with reality. And sometimes it confirms what we sensed all along. Other times, it redirects us toward something better. Either outcome is a gift.

One of the reasons I love coaching during seasons of transition is that people often discover they don't need someone to tell them what decision to make. They need someone to help them notice what they're learning as they walk. That's where clarity deepens. Not before the experiment. But because of it.

Even when an experiment doesn't lead where we expected, it often reveals something important about our gifts, our values, or the direction God is inviting us to pursue. Perhaps that's why designing your change isn't really about creating the perfect future. It's about becoming a curious learner who trusts God enough to keep walking.

Responding to the Invitation

Think about one area of your life where you're waiting for certainty before moving forward.

Now ask yourself:

• What is one small experiment I could try over the next month?

• What might I learn by taking that step?

• What would success look like if my goal wasn't certainty—but greater clarity?

Then choose one experiment. Not because you're trying to force the future. But because you're willing to let God teach you as you walk. Sometimes the smallest experiments become the beginning of life's biggest transitions.

-Tim

P.S. If you're feeling stuck between where you've been and what comes next, coaching can help you design thoughtful experiments that fit your values, your season of life, and your sense of God's leading. You don't have to have the whole plan—you simply need a place to process, explore, and move forward with wisdom.

When the Next Step is Enough

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Design Your Change | Part 2

One of the greatest obstacles to moving forward in transition isn't a lack of opportunity. It's our desire for certainty. We tell ourselves:

"Once I know the right decision, then I'll move."

"Once I know how everything will work out, then I'll commit."

"Once I feel completely confident, then I'll take the first step."

But transition seasons rarely unfold that way.

In the last post, we explored the idea that clarity isn't the finish line. It's the starting line. As we begin to design what's next, many of us discover that we're still waiting for one thing before we move forward: more certainty. The challenge is that certainty is often a poor prerequisite for faith.

When God called Abraham, He didn't hand him a map. He simply said, "Go from your country... to the land I will show you." (Genesis 12:1)

Notice the language. Not "the land I have already shown you." Rather…"the land I will show you."

God's guidance unfolded as Abraham walked. I've found that to be true in my own life as well.

In 1996, my wife and I made one of the biggest decisions of our lives. We sensed God inviting us to leave what was familiar and move our young family to Central Asia. By no means did we have complete clarity. But we had enough. Enough conviction to believe God was opening a door. Enough confirmation from trusted people. Enough faith to take the next step.

We had no idea where that single decision would eventually lead. What began with one step unfolded into sixteen years serving in Central Asia, followed by three more years in Turkey.

Looking back now, it's obvious that God was writing a much bigger story than we could see at the time. But we couldn't see that story in 1996. We could only see the next faithful step.

I remember sharing Abraham's story with friends and family as we prepared to leave. In many ways, I was trying to process our own decision. But I was also inviting others to release the myth that faith always begins with certainty. That sometimes faith begins with enough clarity to say yes. Not yes to the entire future. Just yes to the next step.

Perhaps that's where you find yourself today. Maybe you're considering a career change. A move. Retirement. A ministry opportunity. Starting something new.

You may not know how the story ends. You may not even know where the next six months will lead. But perhaps you know enough to take one faithful step.

Sometimes the next step isn't about reaching a destination. Sometimes it's about discovering something you couldn't have learned by standing still. That's why, in coaching, I often encourage people to think in terms of experiments rather than permanent commitments.

When we're humble about our own assumptions, experiments can create space for learning. They allow us to explore without believing every decision must define the rest of our lives.

One conversation. One informational interview. One volunteer opportunity. One class. One small act of obedience. Each one becomes another opportunity to notice how God is leading. The goal isn't to eliminate uncertainty. The goal is to become the kind of person who can walk faithfully without needing to see the entire road ahead.

Responding to the Invitation

This week, instead of asking, "What decision do I need to make?" Try asking, "What is the next faithful step God may be inviting me to take?"

Choose one action that aligns with what has already become clear. Have the conversation. Explore the opportunity. Take the class. Visit the place. Ask the question.

Then pay attention. Notice where God brings peace. Notice where He stretches your faith. Notice what new clarity emerges because you were willing to take one faithful step.

-Tim

P.S. If you're standing at one of those crossroads where the future feels both exciting and uncertain, I'd love to encourage you. Some of the most meaningful coaching conversations happen when people have enough clarity to move—but would value a trusted companion to help them walk wisely, faithfully, and without the pressure of having everything figured out.

Clarity Isn't the Finish Line

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Design Your Change | Part 1

Over the past several weeks, we've been exploring what it means to Discern what's happening beneath the surface and Discover what matters most in a season of transition. Now we begin the next stage of the journey.

Eventually, another question begins to emerge. "Now what?" This is where many people become stuck. They're waiting for complete certainty before taking action. They're hoping for a detailed roadmap before taking the first step. They're afraid of making the wrong decision.

But what if that isn't how God most often leads? I think of Abraham. When God called him, He didn't hand him a detailed itinerary for the years ahead. He simply said,

"Go from your country... to the land I will show you." (Genesis 12:1)

Notice the invitation. Not, "Go to the land I've already explained in detail." But... "…the land I will show you."

Abraham was invited into a journey of trust where purpose would unfold over time. The destination became clearer as Abraham continued walking…and sometimes stumbling… with God.

Perhaps our own transitions are often like that. We long for certainty, but God offers something different: enough clarity for the next faithful step. That's why I believe clarity isn't the finish line. It's the starting line.

The next stage of transition is what I call Design. Design isn't about creating the perfect life plan or predicting exactly how the future will unfold. It's about responding to transition’s invitation with openness, wisdom, and courage.

Instead of asking, "How can I be certain?" we begin asking, "What is the next faithful step?”

That next step might be:

• A conversation you've been postponing.

• An informational interview.

• A coaching conversation.

• A volunteer opportunity.

• A new rhythm or boundary.

• A small experiment that teaches you something you couldn't discover by thinking alone.

None of these require complete certainty. They simply require a willingness to move forward with an open hand and a learning posture.

Design helps us begin living the invitation. Clarity doesn’t always precede action. Sometimes it comes because we were willing to take the next faithful step.

As we begin this new series, my hope is that you'll resist the pressure to figure everything out. Instead, simply ask, "What invitation is God asking me to begin living today?" Because…

Discern helps us recognize the invitation.

Discover helps us understand the invitation.

Design helps us begin living the invitation—with an open hand, a listening heart, and a willingness to learn as we go.

Responding to the Invitation

Rather than trying to solve your entire future this week, simply practice taking one faithful step. Spend a few quiet moments reflecting on these questions:

• What has become clear enough that I can begin acting on it?

• Where am I waiting for certainty when God may simply be inviting me to trust Him with the next step?

• What one conversation, experiment, or opportunity could help me move forward with greater clarity?

Then choose just one. Not because you know exactly where it will lead, but because you're willing to trust God in the journey. Small, faithful steps often become the path God uses to reveal what's next.

-Tim

P.S. If this resonates with where you are today, I'd love to encourage you personally. Designing the next season of your life doesn't require having all the answers. It helps to have a thoughtful companion who can ask good questions, help you notice what God may be stirring, and support you as you take your next faithful step. If that's where you find yourself, I'd be honored to walk alongside you.