Moving Forward in the In-Between

Design: Experimenting Toward the Next Season

By this point in a season of transition, something has likely begun to shift. You’ve slowed down enough to notice what is changing. You’ve started to name what matters most—your needs, your values, your direction. And now, a new question begins to emerge: What do I actually do from here? It’s a natural question. But it’s also one that can pull us back into old patterns—trying to make the right decision before we take any step at all. What if there’s another way?

Moving Forward Without Forcing Clarity

Many people assume that clarity must come before action. But in seasons of transition, clarity often comes through action. Not big, final decisions. Not irreversible commitments. But small, thoughtful steps. This is what I mean by Design. Design is not about having everything figured out. It’s about beginning to move forward in a way that stays aligned with what you’re discovering.

From Decision-Making to Experimenting

Instead of asking, “What is the right next step?”, we can ask a different question: What is one small step I could take to explore what might be next? This shift matters because experiments:

• reduce pressure
• create learning
• keep you moving
• allow clarity to grow over time

Rather than waiting for certainty, you begin to gather insight through experience.

What Thoughtful Experiments Look Like

Experiments don’t need to be long or hard. They are often simple, intentional actions that help you test direction. For example:

• Having a conversation with someone in a role you’re curious about
• Exploring a new opportunity on a small scale
• Reallocating time toward something that feels more aligned
• Saying no to something that no longer fits

Each step becomes a way of asking: Does this align with what I’m discovering matters most?

Paying Attention as You Move

Design is not just about taking action—it’s about paying attention while you do. As you take a step, prayerfully notice:

What gives you energy?
What feels aligned?
What feels off?
What surprises you?

This is where discernment continues. You are still listening. You are still discovering. But now, you are also learning through experience.

A Simple Experiment to Begin

If you’re in a season of transition, consider this:

What is one small, low-risk step you could take this week that aligns with what you’re discovering?

If it feels final or too long-term, that’s probably not what you’re looking for. You’re looking for something that allows you to explore, notice, and learn…not lock you in. Write it down. Take it seriously—but hold it lightly. Then pay attention to what unfolds.

When Movement Feels Difficult

Even small steps can feel challenging in transition. There may be uncertainty, fear of getting it wrong, or concern about how others will respond. That’s normal. This is why many people don’t need more information—they need support in moving forward thoughtfully.

You Don’t Have to Figure It Out Alone

This is often the point where conversations become especially valuable. Not to give you answers, but to help you:

• stay aligned with what matters most
• reflect on what you’re learning
• make thoughtful adjustments as you go

If you’re navigating a transition and finding it difficult to move forward, this is exactly the kind of work I do in coaching conversations. A simple, focused conversation can often help you take your next step with greater clarity and confidence.

What Comes Next

As you begin to take steps forward, something else becomes clear: This journey was never meant to be walked alone. In the final post of this series, we’ll explore what it looks like to Find your True North—and walk it with support. Clarity deepens and direction strengthens when we move forward with others.

Reflection Question:

What is one small step you could take this week that would help you explore what might be next?

Tim

P.S. If you regularly walk alongside others in seasons of transition—as a coach, pastor, or leader—I’m hosting a live webinar called Walking with People in Transition, where I share practical frameworks and tools for these conversations.

You can learn more and register HERE:
https://www.encompasslifecoaching.com/webinars

And if you’re navigating a transition of your own, you don’t have to figure it out on your own. I’m always glad to connect for a thoughtful conversation.